We need to reclaim that. But if hating smoking made it easier to quit smoking, you would have quit already, right? If anyone questions you, tell them that Sifu Anthony said so, and they should take it up with me. I know Kung Fu. For 3 months, I want you to savor each cigarette. Smile from the heart. Be here and now. Notice the cigarette, the color of the cherry, the feel of the drag, the shape of the smoke. Lighting a cigarette and smoking half of it without hardly noticing.
And then needing to smoke another one immediately after because you missed the first one. Guilt just creates a negative loop. You feel bad, and then you want to smoke more, and then you feel worse, so you smoke more. You need to break the cycle, and the way to do that is by feeling good.
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They fail because they try to subtract bad habits rather than adding good one. The course above gives you everything you need to change your life using 2 minutes a day of qigong as your gateway habit. So put it on your calendar right now. You first goal is to do 2-Minutes once a day. Keep trying until you succeed in doing it every day for 30 days.
Keep smoking, and enjoying yourself, until you have made a strong habit of doing 2 minutes a day of qigong. All of that enthusiasm and energy you periodically have toward quitting — put all of it into your daily qigong. Remember, this next attempt at quitting is going to be your last one ever. Do or do not. Set the date far enough in advance that you can continue to do two things for a few more months — enjoy smoking, and practice qigong for 2 minutes a day. You decide to set your quit day 3 months down the road. With your quit date set, you have time to get yourself ready.
Gradually start to arrange things for that day. For example, collect all of the ashtrays in your house, and throw out all but one. This will help you to get ready for the big day. But most importantly, get your heart and mind ready for the big day. So the big day is approaching. I still remember the last cigarette that I smoked. I made a little ritual out of it, and said goodbye, as if saying goodbye at a funeral. I recommend that you smoke your last cigarette at night. That way, you can wake up the next morning and start fresh.
Cold turkey is the only way to go. Again, just ask ex-smokers, and the successful ones all agree — go cold turkey. The suffering that you experience during the withdrawal is part of the equation. Going through the hell of withdrawal is necessary. Use your tools, especially the 2-Minute Drill. It will be your life vest. It will also help you to detox faster. During the first 2 weeks, you may need to do it 10 times a day, or even more. But the 2-Minute Drill will make it tolerable, and give you the strength to get through.
This has advantages and disadvantages. Maybe I should have started with this part. Do you start with the good news, or the bad news? In this case, I started with the bad news. Once you make peace with never taking another puff, and once you get through those first few months, once you quit for good — life becomes beautiful. Like I said, that chapter is over for me. Not even one puff. Those of you who have already quit, please post your stories below. And those of you who are getting ready to quit — come back to this article and post your thoughts, questions, and concerns whenever you need a little help.
As the director of Flowing Zen and a board member for the National Qigong Association, I'm fully committed to helping people with these arts. In addition to my blog , I also teach online courses and offer in-person retreats and workshops. I have never smoked, and never will. But insofar as taking an approach to and having an attitude toward an addiction—this is genius. Seems to me your using a bit of the AA programme here.
And as for ONLY going cold turkey, well I know many people who have used whatever to help and they remain quit. Cold Turkey is the way that worked for me. I started smoking a year ago. N CH success to you! By the time I quite, I had a long history of smoking a cigarette with coffee, smoking with a beer, and smoking whenever I felt stressed. Hi I quit cold turkey last night at Can you please expain to me why it is so important to quit.
I dont want to. Cigarretes are one of lifes many bounties. Why do people want to quit so badly? I think that the health risks of smoking have been well documented. If you believe that alcohol, opiates, opiods and cocaine, methamphetamine etc are higher on the chain you are incorrect. AA uses the 12 Step Approach that would certainly help with smoking cessation. Today is the first day of the rest of my life smoke free. More then 20 years a ago I stopped for 9 months and asked someone for a cigarrete like I was in a movie. And the 9 months went in to the toilet in 9 seconds.
I have been smoking for almost 50 years and I have been one human cigarrete. Smoking has been my best friend other then my wife. Smoking is the number one cause for Bladder Cancer. I now have coronary artery disease, COPD, mild cardiomyopathy and a lung cyst. I denied all of it. My situation is pretty straight forward. I will die if I continue to smoke.
Yeah I know we all die. I will not let this wolf in sheeps clothing kill me. It makes friends with you and then sets out to put you in your grave! I have spent my life in Health Care as an RN and I am telling you I knew all the risks and believed that I would be the grandfather above. I smoked for 30 years and had to stop immediately because of a brain infection and epilepsy 25 days before my 45th birthday I miss smoking so much and im already on month 6.
Cold turkey worked for I, whereas patches, e cigs, gum etc. I dreaded the withdrawal of going cold turkey as I had went through it earlier in my smoking career. After 25 years of smoking I invented a way to gradually reduce the nicotine in my system before going cold turkey and used techniques very similar to what Sifu suggests. There was definitely withdrawal but not near as bad, and I am now proud to be smoke free.
Studying and daily Qigong for the past 2 plus yrs. I say former because I believe the mindfulness of my practice has replaced the reality of the addiction. I quit an 11 year habit 12 years ago, only to pick up again 2 years ago in the wake of a family tragedy. I stopped 4 days ago on a whim. My quitting is centered around shame and not self-love. I smoked cigarettes from ages 12 to The thing that really helped was something my sister told me once: And then it is. I mean I smoked here and there while being on the patch for a few years..
However I am prepared to be a non smoker through patches forever. I feel good about that in terms of risk. Have you been reading my mind again? But you are so right, every time I fail makes it harder and harder to even attempt. I smoked for twenty years and seriously quit about five times, once for nearly three years. I used the patch or chewed the gum and each time I quit I was miserable, felt deprived and depressed, not just for weeks, but for months on end.
I constantly had smoking dreams. All that thinking about cigarettes was exhausting. The last time I quit it was easy. I imagined the withdrawal as a strange flu and treated myself gently for a week, but my relationship with nicotine was over the second I put out that last cigarette.
I was not depressed, I was not envious of smokers and I no longer obsessed about cigarettes. I was free and it was awesome. Though this happened long before I met him or learned of Qigong, so many things Sifu outlines above were a part of the plan I used to quit. That I gave myself permission to smoke meaningfully and not mindlessly until I was ready was key.
That I had a method was key.
That I had a ritual was key. That I quit cold turkey was key. I enjoyed quitting so much that I love helping and encouraging others to have that same awesome and freeing experience. Thank you for your message; I really clicked with it. I just quit 2 days ago and I am happier already but am prepared for the withdrawals to begin. I am married for 6 months and my husband hates the smell of the smoke and to tell you the truth, so do I! I smoke in the house and have spent so much money on glade candles its insane!
I added it up and welp, Im done. I would appreciate emailing you from time to time if that is okay. Hi Robin, You have just described me right now. I am miserable, I feel deprived and depressed. I am not a very nice person…………………….. It has been 2 months. Yes, 8 weeks of cold turkey hell. I thought it would start getting easier by now. I refuse to smoke ever again, but man I sure wish this would go away. So hang in there! Have you tried adding some qigong? You can learn an exercise for free right here: This is a good post if the addiction is something you want to get rid of.
Addiction is about behavior; when you are addicted you are not mindful or present with the thing, and you do not truly appreciate it. When I first started smoking, it was a really deliberate decision. I lived on a farm at the time and it just felt right.
Why You Shouldn’t Quit Smoking
I bought a pouch of organic American Spritis and would roll myself one, getting better every time, and sit on the porch either watching the sun set or enjoying a good book. I loved it so much, and I was careful to moderate myself… only one or none a day. Things changed when I moved and started a new job. My job was incredibly stressful, and I started smoking on my back to back 16 hour shifts as a way to get breaks. Cigarettes went from being a leisure activity, to the thing I needed to escape the constant low level trauma that was my workplace.
It worsened when I started getting pre-rolled cigarrettes. I lost my ritual. I quit a few times, but of couse rough days happened. What finally worked for me was to get a pouch of the best tobacco I had ever tried and to really savor the experience of rolling which I miss more than the smoking!
That was way easier than committing to never smoking again, and it felt good because it was a way of valuing myself. Thank you so much Sifu! So my two cents: Quiting Smoking is something I am wanting to attempt. My past failures are mostly due to parents in the home who still smoke. I am torn between wanting to quit, and seeing the cigarettes lying around and being more tempted to pick on up again. There is no way I can get out of the home, seeing and smelling the cigarette smoke, and the withdrawl is what has me returning to smoking every time.
I am at a loss of what to do, besides locking myself in my room and dealing with the withdrawl.
I plan once again to try and quit. I know that it is not going to be easy cold turkey, given the years, but it is something that I have to do to improve my over all good health. What I need is a way to accomplish that with smokers around me. I think it is a self-limiting belief to be honest. I hated this addiction. I simply did not want to take another single puff and from all the times I attempted to quit and stay off smoking, this time has been by far the easiest.
In my opinion, you just have to deeply know why you want to quit and to believe that, instead of believing your self-limiting beliefs. But this time I have another issue which impedes me from letting go of it: So, before quitting smoking, I think I should find a solution for this issue first. Can you give any advice or recommend a specific qigong exercise to help restore healthy digestion?
Yes, I recommend that you add Qigong to your morning routine before you worry about quitting smoking. The article above will give you some tips, and when my book is finished, that will teach you everything you need to know in detail. I started smoking at 14 years of age, I will celebrate my 60th birthday in October,apart from 4 or 5 attempts at quitting , which lasted 24 hours at the most, I have smoked everyday. I am so glad that I discovered this site, as I have been wanting to quit but dreaded the thoughts of withdrawal symptoms. I had the same experience, smoked 12 years and then went cold turkey.
Was fortunate enough to have worked out the principles of the above method on my own, but had I not, this is an excellent guide, and I speak as a nicotine addict. Best decision I ever made — everything got better afterward as I started to have more ability to have control over my life and the other decisions I made. Life stopped happening to me, and I started happening to life. I have to say that I completely disagree with this approach.
Why You Shouldn’t Quit Smoking
If his approach works, great! Also, the latest theories about willpower and habit tend to agree with the approach I mention in this article. Perhaps you could explain the differences to us? You have to keep smoking while you read the book, and only setting a date once you have completed the book and ready to implement the tips he outlines therein. Sifu Anthony has done here. I think doing both may be helpful to some people. I quit for two years using zyban and Mr.
And then I started again. But Allen Carr suggests cold turkey is the only way. I was on The champix drug to stop but was struggling 10 days in so picked the book up and it helped so much. Just goes to show the power of the mind eh!! The cough has gotten increasingly worse, and finally when I did research, I found out I had of lung cancer symptoms. At times I feel so strong, like this will be so easy.
And then I get these waves of feeling so helpless, unable, and frenzied for just a pack. Smoking became my lifestyle. It was a part of my identity, and something I deeply enjoyed. I need your support. I can barely breathe anymore from smoking. I need to quit. Dear Camila I feel for you be-leave you me. Everybody dies regardless of whether they are a smoker or not: This is great advice, after 16 years of smoking a pack or so a day I finally stopped smoking cold turkey.
Stopping to Smoke is the best thing I ever did in my life. The withdrawal symptoms the first 2 weeks were very intense but knowing that the cigarette companies had specific engineered chemicals injected into the tobacco to make me feel like this was empowering and motivated me to stop even when I was feeling down and sad without a smoke. No need to Quit Smoking, just stop smoking, if you fail and light up after a few days no need to panic you stop smoking again until you completely stop smoking.
The idea that smoking is so hard to stop is part of the manipulation tobacco companies have subconsciously used. Nicotine will no longer be in your body a few days after your last cigarette. Good luck to everyone that wished to stop, in the short and long term it will be the best decision. An honest Smoker will tell you that it is harder to live a lifetime Smoking then living as a Non-Smoker that is the raw truth.
I really like that last line there, Mike! Coming in here a bit late, but I suspect you will be getting readers for years—even decades—on this particular post. I never set a date. I turned to vapor, and decided to dial down my smoking. I smoke half of what I had when I started vaping. I would set periodic time targets up to 3 or 4 hours and they have mostly worked. Am I deluding myself? So with regard to other addicting aspects beyond the chemical , is this relevant?
I went through a lot of the same kinds of thinking when I quit. Your line about being in sales and thus being unable to afford irritability stuck out in my mind. In the end, I chose to go cold turkey.
Think About Your Reasons for Quitting
There are other methods of quitting, but cold turkey, and committing to never taking another puff are the tricks that worked for me and many others. My advice is that you quit cold turkey. Pick a date next week, and then quit. Start preparing your home. Tap into smoking cessation support groups. Tell your family and friends. Summon up all of your spiritual and mental energy. Let go of your guilt and shame, breathe, and focus on your baby. I loved this post, great tips and very very useful.
I am now on 3 weeks and it is absolute hell! I am on such a roller coaster and it is worse now than it was 1 week ago. However I have something very useful on my side. I have been there, done this and made it. I can say one thing though and that is that this is a different monster. I can tell you that in my personal experience so far cigarettes is more addictive than alcohol, cocaine, marijuana or speed! This has been a tough journey, but my first time quitting smoking ever.
I will not go back to smoking and that feels good. I just wish I could stop feeling so uncomfortable now! I quit cold turkey 5 weeks ago, with the help of accupuncture. But your resolve will be challenged many times not only the next few weeks, but the next few months. Would-be quitters always start out with the best of intents, particularly at the beginning of the New Year. When quitting, however, this outlet no longer exists and stress can accumulate, ultimately leading to slipping. When I was a smoker, these kinds of situations were exactly the ones that beckoned me to cigarettes.
You made the decision to stop smoking a few weeks ago and while the first few days were tough, things seem to be on track. And now you have suddenly become more conscious of smokers around you: When surrounded by smoke from other smokers, it can be easy to be reminded of the smoking life — and even perhaps a little envious of it — causing yourself to ask: Should I just go back to smoking? Self-doubt can creep in at this point as well, causing you to second-guess your resolve. Smoking is, after all, an expensive habit, and quitting can help you start saving money at the same time.
But to take that step, you have to know what it is. So in this article, I will show you what the first quit smoking stage is. Same goes for kicking the nicotine habit. And when you feel ready, then you are the one in control; not the cigarettes.
What to Do When You 'Just Can't Quit'
You have to say: I have to do something. Make Quitting Less Overwhelming Quitting can be an overwhelming goal because there are just so many things to do, too many things to consider. This overload can be paralyzing. So deciding when to stop smoking will help you move forward. Quit in one week, two weeks or a month.
Just commit to it and note that day. Circle it in your diary or put a reminder on your phone. And say it out loud: So think with me now for a moment. Why do you want to stop smoking? Maybe your body has started giving you warning signs about your health and your energy. Or maybe you just want to live a long, healthy and happy life with those you love.
Ok, so what is your reason for quitting? I need to quit smoking because I want to… be healthy once again be there for my family and loved ones get my peace of mind back breathe better get rid of the cigarette smell stop wasting a fortune on cigarettes or feel vibrant and healthy Whatever it is for you, just write it down! You may feel uncertain about whether or not you can do this.
How to Quit Smoking
All this hesitation is normal. For example, have you ever been worried sick about something… thinking it over and over again… …and when you talked about your worry with someone else.. Well, doubt about quitting can be reduced the same way: And remember, you are not alone in thinking all those things.